“My child would never do any thing like that!”

Sure, of course not.

“Some thing” and “any thing” in this case are interchangeable: parents referencing underage drinking by their children. You would guess those words are often uttered. And have been each and every prior spring. Here’s a not-so news flash to parents: If your child is intent on drinking he or she is not going to give you a heads-up.

The prom season has come and mostly gone for area schools. And here comes commencements! High school youth are celebrating. As they should within the bounds of common sense and safety. Such celebrations are very well-deserved rites of passage. Such times are memory makers for sure.

But, let’s be blunt. Some will celebrate the wrong way. Often with tragic circumstances. Often involving a motor vehicle. This time of year should be a time of happiness. That’s why it’s important that parents talk with their teens about the consequences of drinking alcohol. That goes for any given day or night.

Authorities will tell you that the graduation season brings with it increased concerns for teens and drinking. Check the grisly stats.

Teens must be sure they know not to get into the car with any driver who has been drinking, and they must know they are responsible for their own actions. If teens truly want to prove what adults they have become, they must show they know how to prove they’re worthy of the responsibility.

Parents, please don’t let this busy time of the year deter you from being an active part of your child’s life. Talk to your children about the importance of being adults. Will “some thing” or “any thing” happen to your child? Let us hope not. That goes for all families out there. But ultimately something always does happen to someone. Parents, please invoke and enforce the common sense rule. Be vigilant with your children as they approach full adulthood. It’s what good parents do.